Recently i have been hit by this huge wave of confusion and uncertainty.. everything that ties me down to a relationship sets me one a huge question with undesirable answers... what really makes a family?
i have noticed that relationships within then family isn't what it used to be. people who are just friends lend a shoulder in times of need when family members dont really care...
outsiders are more of siblings and siblings are more of outsiders...
i dont know what made me to think of all these.. maybe i'm just paranoid.
people seems so genuine on the outside but it's a different story altogether on the inside...
i thought family members were the ones who were going to stick by me through thick and thin.. but this is not the case here...
people who dont even have a blood relation are more sincere and more trustworthy.
they show that they care.
they show that they love and they really wanna help us out.
so, what really makes a family?
blood ties? bonds predestined through generations to come? or people who call themselves as relatives??
there are so many people in my family.. i dont even know most of them because i only meet them during marriages, funerals and christmas... is this what we call a family?
i certainly hope there might be a change in days to come..
perhaps when i grow older and have a family of my own.. things would be different..
so that leaves with the last option.. what really makes a family?
the most amazing four letter word in the english vocabulary... LOVE.
